" I durable the pressure unable "
" I hates the work that does "
" You hope from I too much "
" Work here , have no the quality of life "
" I hate a boss "
" I am bored with awfully "
A person often think oneself it's impossible chooses must drudge the work noly the happiness , while , there is a person again one office group happily , ? please or.
In a book , Authentic Happiness , write by , Dr.Martin Seligman , get lift the research of , Amy Wrzesniewski , branch business professor of , New York University , at do in year A.C. 1997 Amy meet that , 1 in 3 of a person stares the work of the self that , be , Job , be do for exchange money support oneself one's family , 1 again in 3 next think be , Career , be have pillar motivation that woman's breast climb progresses in the organization , and 1 in 3 last the remainder thinks to are , Calling , he happy with the thing that does because , it has the meaning and his life.
Try come to meet for the first time type 3 about [ story ] of the work in housekeeper position who cleans in an office sees.
First person is are Ant , she works this for exchange with money , a little at she will tell with friends , her is that , what is she does ? (stay) [doing that action] , a lottery is will one her hope to is will free from evil from the thing that her is doing , she sits day by day that , ? will Songkran festival or , long holiday is tricked , be Ant stare the thing that her does that , it is " Job "
Try come to see Bee , she works hard , she not like the thing that her does very extremely , she hopes that , will a boss or move to become operator quickly , when at her friend has promote , she will like to to think a person person that is disrespectful her goes to , or her boss unders the belt , boss time walks to come to inspect , she is will enthuse specially , and like to to complain complain source person uses a bathroom that , , do dirty bathroom always , she wants her boss realizes that , how much is she works to diligent very ? , she stares the thing that her does that , be " Career "
Person last part is Cat , she is cheerful always , she will like hum to the music happily between clean a bathroom , she will like to to advise friends , and the relative comes to work at this company , she is will delighted very if , a person walks to depart a bathroom happily , she thinks that she is happiness leader comes to others , for she has already the clean means the happiness , for Cat has already the work that her does to are " Calling "
An example of both of 3 persons are formed truly that us sees , both of in officer occupation cleans , and other occupation.
If , type Cat person will have can to look for the meaning from her work , us everybody , should look for the meaning has from our work each person also , we have can to work happily if , there is view good point with our work , ask oneself sees that , , ? the objective of our work , why are we come to work ? , how is the thing that us does to have the meaning ?
With regard to we will seek the meaning from our that work , we must the name of a style of the Buddha image sees our before , the meaning of that work gets into trouble of the alms serves others , a human is animal at must help " I scratch the back gives her , she scratches the back gives me is the return " we have can not to live alone.
Still have other factor , at affect the happiness at work such as:
1. or not is our popularity corresponds organization popularity ? , if , you give the worth and the freedom , but , the organization gives precedence with set of strict regulations , or , you are gentle person but , work in the organization where have organization culture likes to speak uprightly , like , plain-spoken , you will may have no many happiness extremely , but , you will may enough [ when ] can stay if , work well and deliver the works can follow the expectation.
2. or not is our popularity corresponds the team ? , if , you are office person like , comfortable , but , go to work in the staff that compete tall , as a result , resemble with in case of , The one.
3. or not are you suit the work ? , there is the skill , the knowledge is or , or not is the skill according to the work wants ? , if , not educated and the skill , enough [ when ] study can , but , if , do for what , limp , may distress please.
4.how much are you have the aim s in distinct work ? , in 3, 5 or , 10 year in front of , how is the work will that do to help give you achieves ?
5. or not are you have a close friend s at work ?
A person will may scold to have no the happiness , by claim the cause is from things , but , in fact ? vacate that responsible build the happiness in your work.
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